So I really think I want to find out what this little bean (it's a lime as of right now) is going to be before it comes out. I have had enough surprises with infertility that I just want the sense of being prepared for a girl or boy and have less of the neutral colors.
Before all of this my husband was completely against finding out but now he doesn't really know what to think... so it has to be both of us finding out or neither.
Right now there is soooo many pregnant people due from November-February and probably more to annouce that I am nervous that my names will get chosen. So if we do find out is it already if we name the unborn baby and let it be known to everyone??? Or is that completely dumb and wrong??? I have never felt I need to be traditional in any of those ways so I am leaning towards it being ok!! Do I care what everyone else thinks?? Well I sort of do but I can justify it!
All opinions are welcome! Don't be afraid to comment!
I do not think there is anyhing wrong with finding out and picking a name too! This is a new and modern world! Embrace it! Make your own rules!
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